Chris and I were the first of our friend group to have a kid. This meant a fair bit of anxiety for me, because I was so afraid that our friends were going to feel uncomfortable with the baby around. I was worried that we wouldn’t be able to attend events and nights out, and eventually that our friends would just stop inviting us places.

Boy- was I ever wrong!

Our amazing collection of humans was over-the-moon about the new addition to the group. They had an amazing baby shower for us. They love him like their nephew, and it’s a beautiful thing to watch.

I realized that my fears and anxieties were totally irrational. Our friends still go out and have gatherings that we are unable to attend- but now we have a lot more in-the-day, kid friendly activities. And no matter what- we are always invited.

We are so lucky to have such wonderful people.